All things come to an end, life goes on and so do Me and You.

Relativity then - in this case would be synonymous among every single human being,
An unnamed thing that looms over every one, the thing that is going to happen, sometimes it never does and sometimes it does, whatever the outcome, the finality of things is definite, as is the understanding that its over, done with, and never to be seen again.

Without saying the same thing thrice, to convince you (whoever...) or myself - our lives in this (these) way(s) are interconnected and yet it is not because the relative experience of - one person - to another may as well be zero, but the sequence of events that take place do so in a Witches Hat sort of a shape or of a Sharp Cliff (if such things would be graphed), in terms of intensity of emotion, and the intent of overcoming, acquiring, rejecting, choosing, or just anticipation, of whatever it might be that affects people on an individual level.

My whole life is thus a wavelength, uneven yet symmetrical.

All the same, yet never relative...

not really